Friday, August 3, 2012

What Do You Want From Me?

It's a simple question. It should have a simple, straightforward answer. "I want to get to know you better." I want to spend time with you." "I want to have sex with you." "I want you to love me." More often than not, though, I get responses like "I don't know" or "I'm confused."

It's the question sometimes associated with the DTR. Sometimes it's the question one asks when seeking a DTR conversation. But at the heart of the question is an admission of vulnerability; asking it almost always indicates a need for assurance, for confirmation, for more. So, how disheartening, how deflating, when the answer isn't more definitive. And if he's not sure, then why am I?

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