I married later in life. I love my little Lizard, but I had a life before him that included a lot of wonderful people. Maybe you're lucky you met your person in high school or college; I did not. I miss some of those people who helped shape me into the person meant for my husband, many of whom I'll never have another opportunity to say thank you for that.
I could drink A Case of You by Tori Amos (originally made popular by Joni Mitchell).